Today I was out treating myself to a movie and running errands, when it dawned on me that I love my life and how things are. Somehow it seems wrong. Of course I accept my present situation of being single but while out I realized that in my life I'm happy single. I don't need a man and can go and enjoy anything I like without one. The only thing I really feel I'm missing is sex and companionship, but I can live without for now.
I don't know if its turning 30 this year or just becoming comfortable in my routine after all these years of living alone. But I question there actually being someone out there or that maybe the person I like now will perhaps work out. Who knows and I can't control what other people feel and want. Oddly enough I'm ok with being alone. I have a new job to keep me busy and fulfilling my need for social and the gym too. By the time I'm done with those two things I'm exhausted, its later in the evening and I'm done. By the weekend I need to catch up on all the things that didn't get done during the week. If I can keep my life busy, social included then I think with this big changed my life will be much more fulfilled than it has been. I've got the attention of a boy or two to text and keep me filling noticed and important and that seems to be enough.
With this new epiphany I feel that it's changing how I feel about life and what direction to take. I don't have to be one thing or another, just happy with the present. So long as I don't affect my emotions in any too dramatic way I think I'm on to something good. I'm changing the viewpoint I've had all my life and its just surprising the difference of it.
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