Boys??

With this new attempt of dating I'm finding that guys surprise me constantly. Maybe I have just become so good looking lately that boys can't keep it to themselves but since when is it ok and normal for guys, who don't know and you've never met, to say they think you're hot and sexy, call you babe or baby, etc. Yes maybe this is only an online dating thing but then even in person I'm being given pet names like babe. Perhaps this is just me but babe or baby is not endearing, rather I find it degrading. Like if you are calling me that then you want something from me.

Also I will admit I'm a first date kisser, if I like a guy and he makes the move then it happens. But I'm trying to see if I can take a new approach and hold out longer in the dating game. Guys think physical before they ever make the mental and emotional attachment. Somehow I have all three at the same time. Once physical is in the mix I'm completely attached emotionally when the other person is just on step one and usually leaves fairly soon after it begins.

But back to the names. I'm finding that I really don't trust guys. Its not all guys but the ones I'm meeting online, which is the only way I seem to be able to meet men. I stay on the side of caution doing this, but I can't decide what is wrong with so many of them. Is it just an online thing, a Mormon thing, or an overall guy thing??? But I've never seen anything like it, and it shocks me. I'm looking for a truely nice, kind, loving, funny, honest man and maybe that's asking for the impossible....